What exactly a guy means when he says “Keep in Touch” ?

I would says he wants to keep contact with you so you could call him if you like the guy if not just ignore it. or maybe he probably means that he just wants to keep in touch, if he doesn’t think there is anything besides just a friendship, thats all he wants.

A similar problem occurred with my friend Daisy. Here is what she mailed few months back.

” I had this great friendship with Ted, and then things got complicated but both of us didn’t want a relationship so things were confusing for a while, and then i was gone for a month and he was busy with work, and things seemed cold when i got back, and we didn’t end up talking for another month, until i texted him telling him i missed him, and he texted back to meet up and chat….things went well, mainly a lot of catching up… but i’m not sure if he just did it because he felt bad for me, or if he really did miss me as well and wanted to see me. in the past, he always would say he’d “call me” (and sometimes he would, sometimes not) but this time, he said, “call me sometime”…i dont understand if this basically means he’s not really interested in ever seeing me again unless i want to see him, and give him a call??? ”

My Friend Mike read the email and said:

“He wants her to want him more or He wants to feel more wanted (he likes that). He is picking up the vibe that she want him, (sorta) and he would like to feel more powerful over her by making that feeling in you increase. Therefore making him feel better about himself and also so that her want him more. That way he is in control of the situation. He probably likes her somewhat and may not be crazy for her (he probably thinks booty call) and wants to figure out how much you like him. He is probably confused of what your feelings are about him and some of his own. This is a really good question I think. Okay hope that helps and makes sense. ”

But I personally think this is from a guy’s perspective. He likes her but isn’t sure what she feel, as such, he doesn’t want to be presumptious and think she likes him as well . . . he would like proof that she still likes him. She said it good in the beginning, it is complicated!

Later I received a response from her:

“I think this one summarized it the best. It seems to really fit his personality, because i have resisted him in the past and insisted on friendship, making him a little insecure of the whole situation; Also, the way he said it didn’t come across as uninviting. Thanks for all great responses!”

Do post your comments about this.!

-Christy

How would you act/compose in front of your Ex-boyfriend ?

Tricky question isnt it ? There’s always been times when we had to bump off a relation when a worthless guy treated you like a doormat. Yes its hard to believe that after loving someone so much one would treat you like that. But that’s called life. We have to pass on and so our life. But at some point we all meet our past face to face. And on such a day when he is infront of you .. You’ll have one question on Mind “How do act now ?”

According to there are various ways:

My friend Mary says:

” You can treat him like any other person, with respect. If it was a bad break-up and your ex and you are not on good terms, I’d just keep it as casual as conversing with a stranger, just small talk. There’s no need for anything more than that. If I was on good terms with my ex, friends even, I’d try to strike up a friendship with his wife, if possible. If I would like my ex in my life, she’ll need to be included too. No, there wouldn’t really be any jealousy or ill will directed because my ex is an ex for a reason. Just because things didn’t work out between us does not mean he isn’t entitled to find some happiness elsewhere. ”

Another of my Kate says: ( a lesbain relation)

” Respectful. I also respect people and treat them nicely. Why should I assume she is a bad person as long as she is treating me nicely. Set a good example. Afterall, you must of let her go or she wouldn’t be married. If you are revengeful and rude maybe you should push the blame on you. Sounds like you still have feelings for her. Out of respect you owe it to her life partner to step back and let go. She has moved on and now it is time for you to move on. She will respect and like you more for it. Be the good person and set the good example. Leave making her wonder why she let you go too. That my friend is the biggest revenge. Look happy with your life and be happy with your life. ”

I would say:

“With class. It will make him feel uncomfortable and wonder about you. If act like an idiot it makes him look better in the wife’s eyes. Like “no wonder he broke up with you” or “What did you ever see in her.” Be respectful and classy. It will make him wonder what he’s missing, or why he let you go.”

-Christy